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extracts from genuine letters and e-mails that I have received from my
self-hypnosis students - telling me about their successes after completing
an M-Power-Me self-hypnosis
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Dear Nicolette,
I was offered the job & was relaxed & calm throughout & enjoyed the entire
process.
I'm noticing subtle changes in my life & am positive it is a consequence of
self-hypnosis & know, as a result, my life will be better & better.
Best wishes Sharon |
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“Dear
Nicolette, I would like to say a big thank you for a wonderful,
peaceful and enjoyable weekend I spent with you.
So far this has been the best birthday present I have ever
received. The marvellous
feeling after the course is still with me.
The following week I felt very excited and enthusiastic and enjoyed
much better sleep than I have experienced for a long time.
I
find the RELAX programme very helpful at work – though people are
looking at me a bit suspiciously as I practice it in the loo!”
love
Angela
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Hi Nicolette,
Thought I'd let you know about this week's success. On Monday I attended a professional meeting.
Previous meetings had always been very confrontational & inevitably, unpleasant. However, in preparation for this week's meeting I had
installed a programme & seemed to sail through it. My manager 'phoned me
last night to congratulate me on how well I had handled the meeting & said I was "brilliant" throughout & handled all questions
brilliantly (my interpretation is calm, relaxed, confident, effective &
efficient!!!) This was a real hurdle for me & am eagerly writing as many
programmes as possible for installation.
I've also used the instant
hypnosis & found it wonderful.
Thanks for the photographs -my husband now calls me RSJ!!!
Regards Sharon.
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Hi Nicolette,
forgive the delay I am still learning how to send emails! Below is a
progress report of how my first week went. I am planning to write 2
programs, 1 to improve my flexibility and the other to motivate me to get
the house finished. As soon as I have done them I will send them to you
for fine tuning! See you soon love Charlotte x
Monday - Having hypnotised myself the previous night to be calm and
confident at work, and on the course I was going on after work, this is
how my day went:
- set the alarm at a later time than usual and successfully used the relax
programme instead of snoozing 4/5 times
- felt refreshed and alert when I arrived at work. I would usually feel
groggy
- responded professionally,
assertively and appropriately to a patient who was quite aggressively
complaining that we weren’t looking after one of the other patients
properly. My stomach would usually have knotted up in apprehension of a
confrontational response, it didn’t.
- went through the shift without doubting myself about anything
- went to course but realised I'd gone to the wrong university luckily
someone there showed me how to get to where I needed to go. Only had a few
minutes to park the car and walk to building but remained totally calm.
Once there realised there are about 10 different campuses and I was at the
wrong one! Calmly went into reception to ask for directions only to find
that it was shut. Unable to ask anyone where I was supposed to go, I
decided to go back to work to explain to my boss why I hadn’t been able
to go on the course. on the way back to the car I
reached into my bag for my car keys and loads of stuff fell onto
the floor with bits of paper being blown away and me chasing after them
instead of getting angry I actually found it funny! On the way back
to work I got lost and then when I eventually found it I went to see my
boss. At this point I would
usually have felt considerably stressed out, I would have sweated a fair
amount making me feel yucky and uncomfortable and I would have been
feeling quite anxious at the prospect of explaining all this to my boss -
knotted stomach, clammy hands, breathless etc. I had
none of these physical feelings and felt totally calm! Wow!
lost
with the new road works in town but remained calm. Had been worrying a bit
about going to see my friend but it all went fine.
Had planned to write suggestions for certain aspects of my life but have
found that in some cases I don’t need to because they're generally
linked to confidence anyway so these problems seem to be sorting
themselves out as a result of being confident.
Wednesday
- Hypnotised myself to be
calm, confident, competent and patient.
Went to hairdressers usually find this can be a bit intimidating for me.
Was also a few minutes late but I didn’t stress whatsoever.
At work in a meeting felt completely relaxed. My colleagues were mainly
discussing low morale and lots of politics crap that would usually annoy
me and wind me up and it all just drifted over me. And I was able to focus
on getting on with my job looking after the patients and ignoring all the
negative feelings around me.
Thursday
Friday - Continuing to be calm etc. and dealing with anything that’s
thrown at me. Nothing seems to be fazing me!
Saturday - Was the only
assistant teacher at ballet so had to take a lot more classes than I would
usually take. I noticed that my teaching had improved, I was able to
communicate both to the children and to my teacher more effectively, I
didn’t struggle to find the words I needed, and I just took the whole
day in my stride. I found that I really enjoyed doing it and felt very
proud of myself for doing so well. I hadn’t even used my teaching
suggestion so I am now looking forward to installing that programme and
getting on with working on my qualification.
I have noticed a massive difference in myself, I am becoming the way I
want to be and as a consequence feel a lot happier about my life and
everything around me.
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Joe: Self-hypnosis Progress Report
Monday
- Played Nicolette’s CD in the morning before leaving the house.
In the afternoon I went to an opening of a building for which I was part
of the professional team. Although I do not consider myself to lack
confidence, I know that when I meet people for the first time I find my
conversation to be a little strained and that I’m rather self-conscious
and lack continuity of conversation as a result. When I left the opening.
I realised that I had been engaging complete strangers in conversation at
my instigation and had been very comfortable with it. I had seen people
standing on their own looking self-conscious and walked over to them and
instigated conversations with none of the usual minor anxiety which I
would normally feel.
During
the afternoon I developed mild but noticeable pain in the area of my
bottom two or three ribs on my rhs. It occurred to me that this might be
the result of a certain ‘iron bar’ exercise, however during the
evening the discomfort increased and whilst I was sitting reading
“Illusions” at home it had got to the stage where I was finding it
difficult to ignore it. I decided to finish the chapter and deal with it
using self-hypnosis. Having made this decision I read on. The very next
paragraph read ‘Surround it in a golden light, if you want. That’s a
healing thing, to help make it real, but it works in magnetizing too’. I
finished the chapter and decided to hypnotise myself and imagine a golden
light healing the affected area. I also decided that I would not zap away
the pain as I didn’t want to mask a more serious problem (were there
one). I felt confident that the healing light would sort out the problem
by morning. And so it did.
Tuesday -
Went book shopping
Wednesday
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Played Nicolette’s CD in the morning before leaving the house.
Followed this by 10 minute ‘Relax’.
Thursday
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‘Relaxed’ in morning before getting up. Wrote
mind map to help develop a programme entitled ‘perfect fingernails’ (I
bite them). Followed mind map with programme.
I installed the perfect fingernails programme using the
pre-suggestion technique.
Began
reading ‘You can heal your life’. I’ve
noticed that when reading now, I tend to assimilate the information first
read. Often in the past (last week and beyond) I found when reading that
my mind would wander and I would often find myself reading the words
without taking anything in. This may be because I am especially interested
in the subject matter.
Friday
- Found myself with finger in my mouth! Decided to add sentence to my
‘Perfect Fingernails’ programme. Have found since then that I have
removed fingers and thumbs immediately from mouth. Result!
Had
very difficult negotiation with removal firm who were trying to charge
more than their quoted price for the move. They were threatening to keep
all the furniture unless we paid the extra money. I remained calm and
confident, not losing it with their unreasonable behaviour, as may have
happened in the past and after about an hour convinced the firm to do the
right thing for the quoted price. Another result!
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Hi Nicolette,
Success - Last week I attended an all day interview which involved the
formal interview in the morning, lunch with twenty people connected with
the post and a presentation to these twenty people (GPs, hospital
consultants, nurse managers and senior nurses) in the afternoon. I had a
week's notice to prepare & despite feeling daunted I knew I'd sail
through the day once I'd installed a programme. I have been offered the
post and truly believe that with the power of self-hypnosis you can
achieve anything you set your mind to. I had thought of contacting you for
a zap but decided I had the power/ability to manage the situation myself
and so I did. It also has a domino affect on all aspects of your life
& I'm finding that I'm packing more & more in to my day &
doing things that I wouldn't have undertaken previously. I am a TRUE
convert.
Best wishes Sharon |
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I've
been teaching people to relax for the last 20 years, but I've never been
able to achieve it so quickly or deeply before!
verbal quote by Jacqui (Occupational Therapist) |
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Nicolette
I just wanted to say that I've had a great week so far this week -
I've been really calm and focussed at work, totally unstressed despite
being thrown into lots of different situations. I've been doing my
relax
everyday - I quite often do it when I'm tired (if that makes sense) as it
rejuvenates me, for example, I did 5 minutes on the bus on the way to work
this morning and felt much better. At first I didn't think that my
body clock was paying any attention to the times I was telling it I wanted
to relax for, but I've been checking and it does work!
I've had a busy week and I haven't had much time to look at the folder and
haven't listened to your CD yet. But I have had time to do a little
zap every day - just little suggestions to be more effective and efficient
and calm and relaxed - it doesn't seem to be difficult to find a little
time for that!
I've told a lot of people about the course and I know several people who
are interested and may come along to the next Friday night session at
least. Thanks for everything and I will keep in touch!
Naomi
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Dear
Nicolette,
I
have had the most amazing few days, if this carries on…well who knows!!
I am keeping a diary (never done that before!), and one of my sisters (a
deputy head of a secondary school in North London) has already said I haven’t
sounded so well for a long time. She is interested in attending, so
I have sent her the details.
Thank
you for everything, I thought the course was excellent and am impressed at
how something so intensive, felt so very comfortable.
Regards,
Toni
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I
am e-mailing to inform you that the zapping is going amazingly and I'd
like to tell you about my funny day.
I was doing PE and was completely Knackered & so decided to zap
something like 'I am awake - full of energy '. This worked a treat & I
did excellently in football. Foolishly, I had forgotten to programme how
long I wanted it to last!
Unaware of this, I went to Maths & found myself working non-stop (not
normal) doing multiplication, division, addition & subtraction so that
by the end of class I had done triple my quota & was helping others
who were struggling along. By now I had realised my mistake
but had to wait. I marched home, hurdled myself onto my bed & turned
off the programme. Immediately, I was completely exhausted
& had to go to bed early.
This was just one more bit of proof that I CAN use self-hypnosis.
I hope you enjoyed this story.
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Dear Nicolette
Just thought I would drop you an e-mail to let you know how I am
progressing with my hypnosis. Its amazing, I am on my placement in
theatre, and I have just completed my first week. I am really relaxed and
in control. I have not fainted at the sight of blood, in fact, I am quite
the opposite. I am totally fascinated and enjoy watching the 'horror
movies', sorry, I mean operations. There is plenty of blood and guts and I
have observed a full hip and knee replacement plus many other gory ops.
Thursday was quite a bad day for me as I felt quite low, quite withdrawn
and in general not very sure of my capabilities. The following morning I
wrote out a script and zapped away all my insecurities. It worked, I could
not believe it, I was a totally different person, happy, confident and
assertive. It is a wonderful feeling and I look forward to each new day.
Thank you
From a happy zapper Amanda x
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Dear
Nicolette
I now have my e-mail up and running, so I thought I would drop you a
line to let you know what a fantastic week I have had since coming on
the course. I enjoyed last weekend so much, you delivered it
brilliantly and I returned to Hampshire ready to take on the world.
I
have practised my relaxation and hypnosis at least once every day.
So far my suggestions have been simple but effective,
On
Wednesday I had my best Piano lesson for years, ......
My piano teacher remarked on the change in me, he is very into
psychology and told me at the end of the lesson that for a long time
when he has arrived to teach me, he visualises that he is wearing a
helmet to protect himself from all my negative comments, but this week
two minutes into the lesson he was able to take it off, is that not
amazing!
I
found going on the course with Glynis was the icing on the cake, as we
have phoned each other every evening recounting all the positive
elements of our day with a few suggestions thrown in.
I
really feel as if someone has cleaned my windows and I now see life much
clearer, much more focused and I am looking forward to whatever is
round the corner!
Thank
you
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Dear
Nicolette,
Well,
the day after the course I started a new job and as usual I expected I
would be a bit nervous. After a zap about ‘confidence’ and ‘being
calm’ I was able to walk into the class and
takeover smoothly from their old teacher, who had left suddenly.
My time with the class was lovely and I really enjoyed every new
challenge thrown at me, including having to play the guitar in the
Christmas assembly to 40 parents and the whole school. I used many small
programmes which were as short as … “ I am more and more confident
in playing my guitar in public, I enjoy entertaining others with my
music and I am more and
more calm and able to enjoy the experience”
Up until this time I had only ever played to a small class or up
to 70 children so playing to a whole school and
parents without any hesitation or nerves was rewarding!
Before
I came on the course I had the problem of always being tired after work
and never having enough energy to make good use of my leisure time. I
started using the relax programme in the morning when I woke up, then
after school and again at night and I found myself with loads of energy!
I don’t have to crawl into bed at 9.30pm now and if I do get tired
during the day I have a quick 10 or 15 min relax at work! It has been
amazing to see the difference
I
have also used my self hypnosis to help my body through an infection in
my throat which I would usually have had to see a doctor for. As I
suffer from tonsillitis and sore throats two of three times a year I am
well aware when I need to make the visit to the doctor and a strepsil
won’t do the trick. Well I must admit that I did actually make an
appointment but they couldn’t see me for nearly a week so I wrote a
programme for my throat. The infection went away itself quickly, I was
also able to control the pain until it had cleared up!
Well
as you know I was a sceptic right up until the end of the weekend, how
could it be so easy? ……..Who cares, it works!
Thanks
and I will be back again for the weekend and hopefully I will bring
along a friend!
Anna
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Dear Nicolette,
Many thanks for the M-Power Weekend. I
have used the new skills all week which has been a very busy one. Using
RELAX morning and evening definitely boosted my energy and kept me
enthusiastic about each day. It was the start of the GCSE Art exam which
is a marathon ten hours! At the beginning of the first three hour
session I decided to talk very positively telling them how they had made
all the right decisions in their preparatory studies and that they would
continue to make the right choices throughout the exam. I reinforced
their confidence and told them that they would demonstrate all the
skills they had and therefore would meet all the exam criteria. All they
needed to do then was to enjoy the creativity! And so they did! At the
end of the session I congratulated them on their work and suggested they
reflected on any areas they might need to research or practice before
the next session. On Friday they returned for the five hour session ---
Always the most challenging as students often find the effort of
concentrating for so long is quite something else! However I went
through the same positive encouragement and they were superb. It
was really interesting to see that even the less naturally talented
students were producing good quality work. We have 100 pupils (five
groups) all of mixed ability and colleagues were amazed at how the
students in my group had all consistently produced the better final
pieces than their groups and they had! Their final two hour session is
on Tuesday and I know they will continue to do so. The M-Power
weekend has helped me to remember to always use positive language and
its power within the classroom and in one to one situations. In previous
years I would have used the," Don't forget" instructions
before the exam and needless to say many would!
Zapping came in more than useful this week
when on Friday after school I was putting up some fairy lights
along the corridor. Our Head is retiring and we were having a special "Do" that
evening. I was merrily putting drawing pins into the pinboard to hook
the lights over when I knelt on 5! All punctured securely into my
Knee! It was competition for the safety-pin trick!! At first I was
quite shocked and as I pulled them out their was blood everywhere.
I suddenly remembered your tale about the ring incident in the bathroom.
So I told everyone to leave me alone and I went in search of a quiet
area. I found a room stacked with chairs and no floor space so I sat on
a chair and zapped PIBBSS! It stopped hurting straight away. About
half an hour later I went back to my office and zapped myself in a more
relaxed way, lying on the floor. It certainly did help and I was on my
feet for the rest of the evening my knee non the worst for the drawing
pin punctures! When I got home at midnight (I had been at school
since 7am! ) my knee had just 5 pin prick marks and a slight bruise
around one. I must have forgotten the bruise bit in the first Zap! But
now we have the instant ability to Zap such situations will be
better and better!
Today we are off to London to pick up Ruth
from her work experience and we will watch the boat race before
returning home. The girls are hoping that the Cambridge crew have Zapped
themselves for a win!
Thank you again for the wonderful
weekend. I know it is making a big difference to us all.
Love Frances x
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Hi Nicolette
I've been meaning to contact you to let you know that after the weekend
course in March I did program in the zap to help me mark all that
coursework
I'd been dreading doing and it worked an absolute treat, I can honestly
say
I really enjoyed marking it all and finished in good time!!
I'd love to come along to another Friday night,
or indeed a whole weekend
again if that's possible as I really was bowled over by the whole
experience.
Kind regards
Louise
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Dear
Nicolette,
As
you know last weekend I attended the M-Power-Me Self-Hypnosis Course at
Coventry and I am absolutely convinced that I have had a life changing
experience.
Before
I describe my experience and why I have made, what is for me, a very
expansive statement I should give brief details of my background and
recent mindset, so as to explain my starting point.
My
background is Training and Training Management having had what most people
would describe as a very successful career with BT. I was responsible for
the design and launch of a major change project for BT’s largest
engineering division. I make this comment only in the spirit of “the
bigger they are the harder they fall” since my life in most aspects has
(oops had) gone progressively downhill. Without baring my soul too much
and producing a text “to slash your wrist by”, my state of mind prior
to this weekend, was characterised by such words and phrases as utter
lethargy, de-motivation, overwhelmed, lacking in concentration, and
pessimistic. I don’t need to go into why this situation has arisen since
I’m sure it’s multi-causal, but suffice it to say, that I have never
in my life been given to pessimism and self-pity. In fact I believe
wholeheartedly that the only way to move onward and upward is via
unequivocal optimism.
Before
continuing to describe the weekend’s experience, I should also say that
I am not normally given to flattery since it is easy to degenerate into
sycophancy. However, it is really important for me to describe the depth
of the feeling that I have for what occurred or rather its effect on me.
The
course has provided a well-structured tool for me to work towards
re-establishing my energy, enthusiasm and motivation. Through the superb
delivery of a well-designed programme, Nicolette was extremely supportive
in all phases of the event. There was real power and logic in the provided
rationale for communicating with the sub-conscious. The M-Power-Me
Self-Hypnosis Model provides a comprehensive but comfortable process to
follow, which having had some prior experience of Hypnosis I know to be
well founded. However, for me the ability to produce a programme for my
self, and my challenges, is what gives the course exceptional strength and
intensity. The Sunday demonstrations with volunteers, which I will not
describe so as not to let the cat out of the bag for potential candidates,
was a fantastic confirmation of the skills acquired. The result of these
demonstrations is difficult for an ex Royal Marine to explain but there
was one occasion when moisture appeared in my eyes (O.K. tears) as a
result of an unshakable realisation that I had been empowered to make real
changes in my life and that the desperation I had been experiencing, was
now a thing of the past. I tried to hide the incident by implying I had
something in my eye, but I know in my heart that what I had experienced
was a real and an unforgettable experience.
I
realise that having been provided with the tools it is up to me to deploy
them and I have started my programme with a daily Self-Hypnosis session
incorporating my own “Megalithic Productivity” programme. I now feel a
sense of real resilience and optimism. I also understand that to realise
the benefits and repair the “damage” I need to maintain the momentum
so this is the first of a series of progress reports, (not as long
promise) - watch this space.
Finally
a word of thanks to you Nicolette. I’ll confine this to a few sentences
so as not to embarrass you too much.
Throughout
life we all encounter, from time to time, individuals who encourage,
motivate, empower and inspire us to make colossal changes in our beliefs
values and attitudes. As a result of these encounters we are gifted with
an insight into a rich and fulfilling life. I have taken to thinking of
the these “teachers” as “my most unforgettable characters” you are
out on your own on the top of my list especially since I have had the
privilege of meeting you in person.
I
now understand the adage “when you are ready the master appears”.
Thank
you,
Regards
Barry
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Hi Nicolette,
Just a few lines to say how
Frances and I are getting on. Well where to begin, I think the best
thing I can do is quote my son who a week after the course claimed he
got his Dad back. I seem to now be able to let go when I get home
and let the worrying about work happen at work and even there a quick
zap doesn't half help. Even close friends have seen a difference.
Frances and I use your CD
together and give each other support. The relaxation is great and
we are both sleeping better (lower volume on the foghorn and using the
relax prior to sleep).
As someone who started a
complete sceptic I am coming round to just accepting it works and
although difficult for me I am letting go of the temptation to analyse
everything.
Thanks for all your help and
I'll be in touch again
All the best
Dave
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Many thanks for the course a
fortnight ago. I enjoyed myself a lot and came away with some
valuable skills. I've been using it a lot to relax and to help
recover from minor running injuries. The CD is great.
All the best
Jonathan
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Hello Dr Lawson, I hope you're well.
Thanks again for the great course.
I have been using self hypnosis a lot, my first programmes roughly being
"I would continue to use it for the rest of my life " + " I
Believed it worked and worked powerfully" (this helped a lot as the
reality of the course was "mind blowing" to me and, left me with
annoying doubts I knew were silly but still had!!! not anymore. )
My programme for self confidence has made a huge difference, my
thinking is no longer "what can I do" it's "what do I want
to do". Dark ,negative ,unfriendly, people seem less so, when
moving around them I forget they're even there (I shall be doing a
programme for awareness!!!). Before it required effort and energy to deal
with or ignore them, now... zero.
The other big one was for forgiveness " I forgive my self +others for
all mistakes, wrong doing etc" - people and events I "
detested" are now "just the way they are"
I feel a lot more in control of me and I am enjoying the
process of changing myself for the better.
I am reading and researching many things in order to write
programmes, like the beliefs of very successful people, it's ongoing and
fun.
Thank you again
All the Best
Paul
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It is always wonderful for me to hear of
your successes, so please keep those letters, phone calls and e-mails
coming in!
Nicolette x |
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